Still single... Probably Unapproachable...

You got your fab new dress on; 6-inch heels that are just to-die-for and let’s not forget your flawless make up. You’re hanging out with your girls at your favorite bar and having a blast.

You can no doubt notice the guys have got their eyes on you, it’s only a matter of time before one would come over and say hi right? You walk across the bar on your own a few times, just in case the guys are intimidated by the crowd of girls around you. Still nothing. You start to wonder if you were wrong about the dress, maybe the shoes are not the right color, or the mascara is starting to smear. Your self-confidence gradually starts to wane until eventually, you just can’t wait to leave the bar.

While you might look Fab and you feel like you are working it, sometimes to get the right attention, you need the right attitude. Being approachable now isn’t a question of looks but of the vibe you are giving off. A few things that can actually give off the wrong vibe- includes body language, posture and facial expressions. Continue...

Making your relationship to be romantic

A romantic relationship is what everyone thinks about but it is usually achieved by only a few. The problem may stem from not knowing what to do, sheer ignorance or full time neglect of a partner. Below are ten subtle ways that you can do with and for your partner to bring a little more romance into your relationship.

1. Make your partner feel special by bringing him or her a cup of coffee or morning breakfast in the morning while he or she still in bed. The kindness is always returned as the partner will feel cherished and loved by you. Continue...

5 Gifts Men give that will Likely Take the Romance Out of their Relationship

Having being in a relationship, I can tell you about five gifts most likely to take the romance out of your relationship. The following gifts are examples of some of the worst types of romantic gifts that a man can buy for his lady. In each of these cases, it would have been better if he’d saved up his pennies and bought her something really worthwhile, such as a beautiful piece of jewellery or that timeless symbol of everlasting love, a diamond. Learn from these terrible examples, so as not to fall into the same trap yourself: 

An Apron,Iron, or Anything Suggestive of Housework: Such gifts bring to mind the image of a ball and chain, with the wife chained to the housework while the chauvinistic man puts his feet up. Whether or not that’s what you’re looking for in a relationship, it’s not a wise idea to communicate it so clearly through giving such a gift. Gifts should be luxurious and not suggestive of work. They certainly shouldn’t be a hint that what you’re really looking for is a housewife. Continue...

A must read for every woman

This is a must read for women I came across and I just want to share it… Ways to show love to your husband by late Pastor Bimbo Odukoya…

1. Discover his favorite pet name and call him by that.

2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behaved that way that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say “I am sorry dear”. Whenever you offend him pettingly, insist on his forgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he does. Continue...

50 tips on how to save money

Saving money is also a hard work and most of the people actually cannot do it properly. So they create some big problems in their life. Here is a list of 50 Tips on how you can save money:

1.Don't buy drinking water. Always keep safe drinking water in Bottle with you.

2. Don't buy unnecessary things.


3. Don't buy books. Borrow them from public libraries. Or if you want a book badly first search on old books market or Amazon's free book collection.

My architectural fantasies: Burj Al Arab

"A building becomes iconic when its form is simple and unique. If you can draw a building with a few sweeps of the pen and everyone recognises not only the structure but also associates it with a place on earth, you have gone a long way towards creating something iconic” "

Thomas Wright

There are few buildings that did become the symbol of a city and even of a country. The Pyramids of Giza, the Tower of Pisa, the Eiffel Tower in Paris, Parliament (Big Ben) in London, the Taj Mahal in Agra, the Colosseum in Rome, the Opera House in Sydney and more recently the Beijing stadium, belong to this select group of buildings whose very image evokes the country where they are standing.

In 1994 a group of young British architects led by Thomas Willis Wright received the commission of their lives: to design a building that would become the symbol of a city, Dubai, and a country, the United Arab Emirates. The client was none other than the actual ruler of Dubai, His Excellency Sheikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum. At that time few people were aware of the existence of the emirate, but it was the Burj Al Arab, the Tower of the Arabs, the one put Dubai on the map.

culled from architecturalmoleskine.blogspot.com

Marriage advice: This is for men...

The best marriage advices I have seen in recent times are usually from people with failed marriages or divorcees. They usually have things they wished they did differently and so offer us the younger ones a better advice with their sincerity and honesty as compared to people with good marriages…

 
MARRIAGE ADVICE I WISH I WOULD HAVE HAD: By Gerald Rogers

Obviously, I’m not a relationship expert. But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… After losing a woman that I loved and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had.

1) Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love. Continue...

True entertainment: Mens' daydream

Hi wife, imagine what sex would be like if every time you made love, you enjoyed fulfilling sex and real connection with your husband. The kind of sex that satisfies you both at the deepest level, sex that is about feeling love, sex from the soul for the soul. Imagine what it will mean to your sex life when you know various unbelievable, incredible and fantastic ways you can pleasure him and such can take you both to the highest level of contentment.

Wife, do you know that just placing few kisses on your husband’s spine from top to bottom, especially when your tongue is close to his buttocks can set him ablaze? There are numerous nerves ending carefully distributed there. Well, most wives never find out the tips and tricks that make sex wildly passionate, and never learn how to truly entertain their husbands. In fact, many wives never discover how good sex can actually be. There are so many wonderful ways spouses can share provoking sex together. These ways can strengthen couples relationship and keep them in good sexual health.

S*x happens everywhere except in marriage...

“Why don’t we do this more often?  I love s*x and I particularly enjoy it with my husband but getting started is just the problem,” exclaimed one wife after a counselling session in my office. Another woman said, “It’s strange, but whenever we do make love, we always look at each other afterwards and say“, Hey, that was terrific. Why don’t we do this more often? Why don’t we?

 Many married couples say that once things get rolling in sexually, they have no trouble responding to a sexual trip and escapade. But a couple’s inability to get started sexually is the greatest single cause of sexual infrequency and sexless marriage.

As much as many couples desire sex to be a “sudden inspiration,” impressive passionate, sex mostly happens in marriage when couples make initiating sex a conscious decision. Many couples have realised that while waiting endlessly for the time of feeling sexy, they usually are not feeling all that sexy until when they decide to have s*x.

But “getting started” is only half the problem in most marriages. There’s also the question of who starts the initiation. Let’s look at the case of Bidemi and Lucky.

Secret desire: A woman's daydream...

Many wives harbor secret sexual desires and many husbands want to know the sexual adventures that can meet this desire. It is as simple as A.B.C.

Husbands, go down on your wives’ nipples, clitoris and vagina carefully. Nipples, clitoral and vaginal stimulation can be the high point of foreplay to a wife. It can even be the main event of the night or an erotic need that couples return to frequently during a long luxurious sexual encounter. Manual stimulation is incredibly important for wives to have an orgasm. Most wives need a little more nipple, clitoral and vaginal contact than intercourse. Warm, wet and intimate stimulation can be just as fun and satisfying as full intercourse. Actually, 87 per cent of wives prefer nipples, clitoral and vaginal caressing to all other forms of foreplay. Many wives fantasize about lying back and having their husbands go down on them, but many cannot express it. Moreover, if you want to sexually pamper your wife or want her to be consumed literally with enticing sexual feeling, try this out tonight. Continue...

Tips on what women should never do...

Ladies always want to look beautiful but I am bringing you a few things you should never do and your man (if you have any) will love you for it:

·         Do not put on too much make up (i.e. if you have to), you end up looking like you came out of the make-up factory for a make-up advert. Men love the natural look and your beauty is graded by nature.

·         Do not shave off your eyebrows only to redraw them with a pencil, it makes no sense.

·         Never wear a vest or sleeveless top without shaving your armpits or without a bra underneath. Use blazers were necessary.

What you need to know about fashion...

Fashion is what you are not wearing. It is what it is until u put it on. The very moment you put it on, it ceases to be fashion. The season of fashion exists only from the time you heard that the style is popular to the moment you try it on.  Therefore, here are a few tips to keep you in style.

1. Try a Timeless Approach to Fashion.

When it comes to fashion, we all love a good trend. It's nice to have something fresh and exciting to spice up the wardrobe. But nothing beats timeless style. The allure of a perfect neckline or simple, elegant lines may not heat up the runway but they work really well in real life.

And, surprisingly, some of the things which flatter your figure the most may not be the trendiest. For example, while skinny jeans are hot, your best look might be a soft A-line skirt instead.